Put Boundaries Between Yourself and Losers

Put Boundaries Between Yourself and Losers

At the same time that you’re putting measures in to support a healthy mindset, you want to put a barricade between yourself and the losing mindset that plagues others. When we talk about losers, it’s not from a bullying point of view.

This is simply a label to describe those who never think of winning – whose entire future is limited by their own inability to allow themselves to succeed. They are defined by their victim mindset, and if you let it be around you too much, it can infect you and become an obstacle in your own journey.

Limit the people around you who constantly complain about everything. They don’t just complain about work or the industry, although they complain about that, too. These people wake up on the wrong side of the bed every day.

They gripe about their customers, their business partners, their affiliates, the platforms they sell on, their own work efforts. They complain about long lines at the store, traffic, or a meal. They simply cannot be positive, and it reflects in their lack of success.

Put boundaries in your life for people who mock your goals. These could be people online or off, including family and friends who don’t understand your vision or the marketing world in general.

If you’re pursing a fiction writing career, they may balk at you actually believing you can succeed, even though thousands of indie self-publishers make amazing money on Amazon Kindle every day...